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Teens: 12 Tips for Parents

Thursday, March 29th, 2012

Teens: 12 Tips for ParentsAlthough these years can be difficult, the reward is to see the children become independent adults, concerned and responsible. The American Academy of Pediatrics (AAP) offers the following tips to help you cope with the challenges of child-teenage daughter :

1. Make time for your adolescent family
Many pre-teens and teens seem more aware of their friends, but this does not mean they are not interested in the family.

2. Spend time alone with your teenager

Although your son or daughter does not want some time alone with you, take the time to remind you always open doors for him / her, and always available if you need to talk. Remind often.

3. When your teen talk:

- Pay attention
- Look, while you listen
- Try not to interrupt
- Ask him to explain things further if you do not understand
- if you do not have time for when your son or daughter wants to talk, set a time to listen with full attention

4. Respect your teen’s feelings
You can disagree with your son or daughter, but do so respectfully, not offensively. Do not think your feelings or opinions are ridiculous or meaningless. You may not always be able to help when your child is sad about something, but it is important to say “I like to understand” or “help me understand.”

5. When rules are required, define them and have them respected
Do not be afraid to be unpopular and do not look good with their children for a day or two. Believe it or not, teenagers are the limits as a way to concern.

6. Try not bother if your teen makes mistakes
The errors will help your child to take responsibility for their own actions. Remember to provide guidance when necessary. Focus discussions towards solutions.

“What a pity to find all your clothes on the ground” is much better than, “You’re a messy!”

Be willing to negotiate and make compromises. This will teach them to solve problems in a healthy way. Do not waste time and energy on unimportant things.

7. Criticize behavior, not attitude

Instead of saying, “You’re late! You’re so irresponsible … I do not like that attitude “try saying,” I worry a lot about you when you do not get, I think you might have missed something … What could we do to get you on time? Could you tell where you’re going and if you arrive late? “

8. Let her know when things seem right and he likes
Just as adolescents need to know how you feel when you are not doing what is expected of them, also need to know that you appreciate the positive things they do.
For example “I’m so proud (a) that do the work and I also you help set the table “.

9. Let your child be the teenager who he wants to be, not the one you want is

Do not push your teen to be like you were or as you would have liked to have been at their age. Allow some leeway on things like clothes or haircut . Many teenagers go through a “rebellious period” in which they want to express themselves in ways different from how parents are. However, worry of the messages you hear in music, movies and video games.

10. Remember that you are a parent and a friend (a)

The separation provides the teen with parents is normal. Do not take it to personally.

11. Do not be afraid to share with your teen that you have made ??mistakes

Make some mistakes not so bad. Try to share with your son or daughter the mistakes you made as a teenager.

12. Talk to your pediatrician if you are having difficulties with his son-daughter

Your Dr. or Dr. will be able to help you and your child to find ways to overcome difficulties.

Tips for new parents

Thursday, March 15th, 2012

Tips for new parentsHow will it change my life?
The decision to become a father is one of the most important things in life a person. Whatever the father’s age or marital status, will surely affect your life in many ways. Particularly the relationship with your partner deepens and creates a very strong bond for many years, even in cases where the partner no longer exists.
Enter the “authorship” may be a very optimistic in your life, offering new social, emotional and financial. You may have other problems and difficulties to solve, but the happiness of being a father for the first time will be one of the most enriching experiences of your life.

How will I feel during pregnancy?
In general all parents go through the same experiences during pregnancy. Here we explain what may be your emotions at this stage so wonderful.

• The news of pregnancy
Fatherhood brings emotions to the deepest levels. If you were looking for a pregnancy, when you hear the first news that your partner is pregnant surely feel pleasure, confidence and pride both as a parent as well as man and always you will look for your future projects that relate to your parenting.

• The first months of pregnancy
During the first months of pregnancy the baby’s physical reality is much more palpable in your partner. I will surely take some time to incorporate your child to your current reality. When the situation becomes conscious, it can sometimes be a shock and you can feel that now “yes” there will be changes in your life. You can be proud and happy, but it is also true that many times you may feel afraid to these new challenges.

• The feeling of abandonment
Sometimes the transition to parenthood can be difficult and is associated with a tendency to depression, or feel a bit abandoned by the couple. Often in these cases the man devote itself earnestly to work or activities outside the home, to avoid facing new situations. Rarely this is very severe emotional disturbance and should be made to special advisers or therapists to find ways to redirect the situation.

Tips to enjoy this new phase
Many men despite being proud and happy with the situation of parenthood are wondering how this new stage will affect your life. Be realistic and recognize that a new person in the house for a few years will decrease the possibilities of movement and important decisions must also adapt to the needs of a child at home. Here are some tips to enjoy and embrace this new phase.

• Accept the changes
The first step is to accept that parenthood is a time of change, in which conflicts may arise and to deal with intense emotions, but it is essential to understand that is one of the most important steps in the life of a person. (more…)

Single parents and single mothers seeking couples

Thursday, March 8th, 2012

Parents singles are not all easy when it comes to finding a partner that fits your way of life. Single parents and single mothers seeking couples do not have any easy time to organize their meetings, and even find it difficult to find a babysitter for a night off. Also, never think of carrying one person you just met home.

Single parents

Furthermore, as single parents and couples looking for single mothers do not have many friends in the same situation, looking for love in the group of friends is usually not normal.
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How to keep older babies entertained during nappy changing

Tuesday, July 26th, 2011

Older babies are more interactive than newborns. During a nappy change, they will search for activities to keep themselves busy. Their newfound mobility such as sitting up and turning over onto their bellies enable them to move about the changing station and disable you from properly changing their nappies. To keep the older babies still during a nappy change, try to entertain them as much as possible. Whether you interact with them through conversation or give them toys to play with, keeping them occupied will make nappy change an easier time for the both of you.

Have a conversation

During a nappy change, try talking to your baby. Babies also carry conversations and some of them love doing so, even if they only babble nonsense. Whether you smile, baby talk or engage in silly chitchat, your conversation with the baby will keep them happily entertained.

Electronic devices

Babies are fascinated with small electronics such as iPods, smart phones and hand-held radios. This is because they see adults using them often.

During a nappy change, give your baby an electronic device to play with – preferably one that is old and now useless – so their hands are busy with this interesting toy.

Mirrors

Babies are often mesmerized with their own reflections and will study themselves with a mirror for a long time. Take advantage of their curiosity with themselves and bring a small, lightweight hand-held mirror for nappy change.

After laying the babies flat on the changing station, give them the mirror and let them study their own faces. While babies are busy pondering their reflections, take the opportunity and change their nappies quickly.

Toys

You can always keep babies busy with toys. However, some toys keep their interest longer than others. Try to pick toys with a lot of movement, has an assortment of colors, are portable and make noises. Toys such as take along tunes, bendy balls and rattles are perfect. The more exciting the toy, the longer it occupies your baby.

Activities for children in December

Monday, February 28th, 2011

Children ActivitiesChristmas is fast approaching, the children are on vacation and the environment must be suitable to receive the love of Jesus in homes.

According to the various school calendars on the continent, the children begin school holiday period around the first half of December. That is when we have a planned agenda of activities on what to do with children, involve them in Christmas activities at home.

What if both parents work during the holidays?

Family planning is important in these cases, coupled with this is the provision of financial resources, for which we must consider:

* Children should not stay home alone for any reason.
* When hiring someone to care for the children, this should have a plan of activities to do in the time when parents are absent, you must also be confidence.
* If you decide to enroll in a course, check whether you may be able to pick out the same and if unable to do so, contact a family member who can serve them and feed them properly and safely.
* Perform a network of parents in the same situation.

The Christmas season is important to encourage family values are based on this conclusion: love, hope, renewal, and above all faith.

Bed Wetting

Tuesday, February 22nd, 2011

Bed WettingBed Wetting: a problematic family
Above all it appears in certain situations: for example at night or because a parent is traveling, because you will have a sibling or a move there. But when this happens regularly do pay attention and observe. If comes after four years, once the children learned, is called intermittent enuresis and late, and is considered pathological. Bedwetting may also start after a period in which the child has learned to be dry, perhaps because the learning process caused undue stress.

Enuresis as emerging from a family situation
In families there are dialectical and dynamic interactions and some children are marked by them. What we realize is that this symptom are the spokesmen of a sometimes troubled family situation. Parents should know that children do not pee on purpose, do not “them”. In general, people are too shy and uncomfortable when it happens.

Parents can always help their children trying to understand the situation. And seeking professional help, because when the source of psychological enuresis is not the doctor can make a referral to a urologist for children to dig the functioning of the kidneys and urinary tract. In any case, be of psychological origin, or not, is indispensable to be vigilant and to accompany them.

Children And Lying

Friday, February 18th, 2011

Children And LyingEarn their trust
We need to talk to your son and explain the benefits of truth, honesty and trust. Talk also that the consequences of lying and deception are creating mistrust of others, lose credibility and feeling bad about yourself:

• Explain to your little one while telling the truth will not suffer any punishment. However, if you’ve already punished too for telling lies or failing to live up to your expectations, it is very difficult to gain their trust.

• Do not miss his lie, but neither punish. Ask him why he lied and give confidence to explain their reasons. Ideally you learn to tell the truth is we do not punish. Teach him that is most valuable to tell the truth to avoid punishment.

• Tell him happy birthday when faced and recognize the truth in spite of knowing that their parents are not going to like it. If you reprimand telling the truth, do not you teach your child the benefit of being honest.

• To prevent recourse to deceit, believe an authentic environment where the important thing is consistency, sincerity, full acceptance, tolerance and freedom. Teaches by example, do not tell lies or justifying them, but desapruébalas. You can only fight the lie if you educate your little one with understanding, openness and mutual trust between parents and children.

• If parents react with exaggerated explosions, reprimands, punishments or threats, the child will be the first surprised by the magnitude of their lies, you will discover that they have enormous power and will say again.

Tips on Treating Children

Friday, February 11th, 2011

Tips on Treating ChildrenTreating children with vaso-occlusive crisis
A. GENERAL
• Hydration: On average applies 2000cc/m2/24horas of intravenous fluids more electrolyte-free intake by mouth.
• Analgesics
- Acetaminophen: 20 mg / kg / dose every 4-6 hours per hour VO
- Tramal: 1-2 mg / kg / dose IV every 6 hours for hours, alone in crisis
unrelieved painful to acetaminophen or ibuprofen
- Ibuprofen: 5-10 mg / kg / dose every 6 hours VO
• transfusion:
Sequestration crisis
Aplastic crisis
Cor anemic
A.C.V. ischemic
Pneumonia + Hypoxia
vaso-occlusive crises not responding to treatment
Prior to any surgical procedure
Prevention A.C.V. ischemic
Chronic lung or heart failure
Prolonged hematuria
Recurrent Priapism
Pregnancy complicated

TREATMENT OF FEVER WITH OR WITHOUT CHILDREN vaso-occlusive crisis:
• Search infectious outbreak
- Paraclinical: CBC with corpuscular indices, reticulocytes, ESR, Rx of thorax, culture (blood culture, urine culture)
• Antiobioticos: start taking antibiotics prior to culture with ceftriaxone 100mg/k/dia
• Crisis associated
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Planning Child Education Program

Tuesday, February 8th, 2011

Planning Child Education Program

We cannot help but accept the fact that children do get into trouble and sometimes emergencies when they are left in childcare programs. We just have to pray that most injuries sustained are minor such as cuts, scrapes, bruises, among others.

It is hard to overstate the importance of a successful child care business plan to the success of such a competitive business. A good business plan will outline the new business’ strategy for success, and help explain what sets it apart from the existing competition.

This is actually quite common in families where one or both parents are school teachers and get the summers off. No sooner June 21 hits and they’re off to somewhere. But what do you do when you want to get away and have a small child, or even not so small child, that needs to be taken care of?

But then there are those who are more well off and use daycare only during certain times of the year when they want to go on vacation to get away from it all. For these people their main concern is that their child is happy while they are away.

Just being fed and watched isn’t going to do it for these kids or their parents. Fortunately, there are daycare centers with quite a few premium services to make the child’s stay there more than pleasant.

Whether your choice to enroll in an online child care program is for a future career in childcare; or part of your continuing education program to enhance your current profession, online classes are designed to meet your individual needs and time schedule.

Childcare providers are usually trained in methods of quick evacuation in case of an emergency. There could be various situations that call for evacuation such as a fire, terror attack or a storm. Care providers are usually well informed of the action to be taken according to the type of emergency.

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TV Effects On Children

Wednesday, February 2nd, 2011

TV Effects On Children

How much impact TV has on children depends on many factors: how much they watch, their age and personality, whether they watch alone or with adults, and whether their parents talk with them about what they see on TV.

The American Academy of Pediatrics (AAP) recommends that kids under 2 years old not watch any TV and that those older than 2 watch no more than 1 to 2 hours a day of quality programming. To minimize the potential negative effects of television, it’s important to understand what the impact of television can be on children.

- Violence

Many violent acts are perpetrated by the “good guys,” whom kids have been taught to emulate. Even though kids are taught by their parents that it’s not right to hit, television says it’s OK to bite, hit, or kick if you’re the good guy. This can lead to confusion when kids try to understand the difference between right and wrong. And even the “bad guys” on TV aren’t always held responsible or punished for their actions.

Three potential responses to media violence in children:
- Increased fear—also known as the “mean and scary world” syndrome
- Desensitization to real-life violence
- Increased aggressive behaviour